In our family life, the husband blames the wife and the wife blames the husband. Parents blame children and children blame parents. The younger brother blames the older brother and the older brother blames the younger brother. All out of ignorance, one person is blaming the other.
If you become disturbed you cannot perform bhajan.
Srila Narad Goswami told Sri Dhruva– Perform bhajan, but WITHOUT ANY HOSTILITY.
You are the cause of your own miseries. You should repent for your own actions. If you perform Sri Hari bhajan, Sri Krishna bhajan, with the proper mentality and one-pointed devotion, then whatever appears to be against you, such as circumstances or family members, will automatically become congenial, automatically. But you are not to demand this.
You are to just perform bhajan.
When Sri Krishna is satisfied everybody will be satisfied.
